Coping with divorce and its long term effects
Coping with divorce – or more commonly failing to deal with it – is one of the most common issues we help our clients with.
Whether you’re in the middle of the divorce battle, or went through it years ago only to find it’s still affecting your life, we want to help!
Why?
Because life after divorce can be happy, fulfilled and full of love. And we want our clients to see that and to discover it for themselves.
I got divorced from my abusive husband five years ago and was pretty sure I’ve put all of it behind me. I moved to Glasgow, started a new relationship and thought I was coping with divorce pretty well.
But when I the arguments with my new partner became more frequent, I realised that perhaps all wasn’t as rosy as I had thought.
After speaking to Andy, he made me realise I was carrying an awful amount of guilt for the failure of my marriage with me. Just like my ex-husband emotionally abused me, I was now doing the same to my current partner and it was sabotaging our relationship.
I’ve got to be honest, I would never normally try hypnotherapy. It sounds a little too hippy for me. But when, after two sessions, Andy suggested it could be the last push I needed on the road to recovery, I thought it couldn’t hurt. Let me tell you, that is not what I imagined being hypnotised would feel like! I was completely awake the whole time. But then, as if by magic, everything changed.
It’s as if this giant weight I was carrying around disappeared. I was able to fully commit and to fully love again. I can assure you that with the right help, life after divorce is certainly possible.
How do we make coping with divorce easier for our clients?
During the initial free consultation, we will assess your situation and find the emotion which is stopping you from moving on with your life after splitting up with your partner. There can be many reasons why coping with divorce might be challenging – the feelings of guilt, failure, fear – or heartbreak can be overwhelming and take over your life if you let them.
You may be wondering:
- Will I ever find love again?
- Did I make the right decision?
- Was it all my fault?
Imagining a life after divorce could seem impossible.
But with the right guidance, you can move past those feelings and find true happiness again. Our qualified therapist will find the best treatment to help you, whether that be life coaching, NLP or Hypnotherapy.
Don’t let divorce define you. Take this step today to claim the rest of your life back!
